Marriage and the sexual revolution

Those asking for gay marriage seem to ignore the amount of promiscuity in the male gay community.

One guy at "the Corner" mused what would John McCain say do if a man touched his shoes, or accused him of coming on to him. He would initially be clueless and then probably lose his temper.

It's probably similar to the kinky sex bars or pickup lines. Since the sexual revolution, we are hearing that such things should be considered "normal" but the dirty little secret is that the average person is not aware of such things, and does not participate in such things.

I remember when I was giving the Aids education classes to our National Guard units. One of the men in the film stated he probably had fifty partners, a different one every weekend. The unit was stunned. Most had sex with their wives and girlfriends and an occassional prostitute/bar pickup, but every weekend? In our rural area there just wasn't that many promiscuous girls. And when they scoffed about the risk of HIV being one in 600 per encounter, I reminded them that many gays who cruised bars had that many encounters in one year.

When I was in medical school, a promiscuous person was one with more than five partners. Now, teenagers with "only" five partners consider themselves as pure...although much of the teen sexuality is not sleeping around, but with regular boyfriends...serial monogamy, not promiscuity.

But until someone has the nerve to say it out loud, no one will hear.
Gay men assume sex is everywhere...and see signals everywhere. There is a lot of stuff going on, but not as much as HOllywood thinks there is going on. We went from not seeing sexual sin to assuming sex is going on all the time...

When one of my gay patients started explaining all the cues and clues he saw, I could only think of it as a cult. Some people get into religion like this, using words and clues and recognizing their own. Or it reminds me of people who go in for colon washing, or wicca or yoga,or far left conspiracy theories, or hunting, or what ever: Their whole lives assume that everyone does these things since all their friends do it...and it is worse on the left/the promiscuous/the gay, because the media promtes the idea that their cult is "normal", whereas even the most obnoxious Baptist or NRA member knows others don't necessarily agree with him.

So expect more cover up on gay marriage, where no one is discussing the reality of the male homosexual crusing lifestyle, and ditto for "transsexuals". There is a deep disconnect and lack of insight into normalcy that makes their interpretation of "breeders" wrong. And the worst are the transsexuals who want to be 18 year old prom queens, not full women. but who dares tell them this?

Ironically, gay women who marry often include those who were hurt by promiscuity, not just those born gay. My joke is that I support gay marriage for women, not for men...

I'm sorry this is a rant, but when someone explains they "need" sex and friendship, yet their "need" lets them sexually harass their employees, embarass their wives and put their business into jeopardy just for a blow job, it makes me realize that it's not just about sex, it's about a lot of other commandments broken to satisfy lust...