Yea, reproductive freedom means family without caregiving

the Philippines needs to note that the sexual mores of the US elites continue to hold that marriage is merely a way of saying you are okay, never mind that you cheat all the time.

At least here there is shame with cheating. In the US they expect you to congratulate them.

and here they pretend that ethical people of all faiths think their "swinging" is okay, but marriage isn't, (in truth, it's the abnormality of their idea of sex that makes a mockery of their claim to marry).

It’s disorienting to recognize that the more conventional our choices are, the more radical we are, that my days of party hopping and sexual adventuring were tolerable, but that our arguing about how much to babyproof, thinking about preschools, buying a swing set, and joining a church constitute an assault on family values

ah, he espouses sexual liberty:

Some people scorn the idea of calling five adults and four children in three states a family, or believe that the existence of our family undermines theirs. I do not accept competitive models of love, only additive ones. I espouse reproductive libertarianism, and would propose that when everyone has the broadest choice, love itself expands..

what is missing? The question if four children in three states is the best way to raise a family. sounds like he wants to be praised for his children growing up alone and fatherless...